Thursday, July 25, 2013

I STILL WANT TO GO TO MY HOME :)

The girls and I have been gone pretty much since the end of May. We/they went to two leadership camps, a Bible camp, to see Caiti, Tank, and Kynslee, to see my parents, to see Mark's parents, to see some friends. Overall we had a great time, but we were ready to get home. Cassidy especially. She started saying a few weeks ago, "I just want to go home and sleep in my bed." It reminded me of a bulletin article I wrote when she was only two so I thought I would reprint it here.

“I WANT TO GO TO MY HOME”

     Recently the girls and I were gone for a little over four weeks (which in kid years has to be at least 6 months).   The first week went okay; they were happy to see their grandparents, great-grandparents, and great-great aunts.   But one night nearing the end of the week, Cassidy looked up at me as I was putting her to bed and said, "I want to go to my home."   She wasn't whining or crying.   It was just a simple statement with a slight emphasis on the word "my."   I explained to her that we couldn't, but that her daddy would be coming up soon to be with us.   That was the end of that for a few days.   But for the rest of the trip, every few days, Cassidy would stop what she was doing and say, "I want to go to my home."   We'd acknowledge her and try to explain how much longer we would be gone, and she would go on to other things.  Finally on the last Monday of our trip, I told her that we would be going to her home in four days.  After that she would go around holding up two fingers saying, "We're going to my home in four days."   When we finally got to "her" home (it was 5 AM), Mark got her out of the van and carried her in to bed.  She woke up and narrated the trip, "That's MY truck, that's MY HOUSE!, that's my stairs, that's Ish's room, that's my bed."  She was thrilled to be there.
     Now you might think from this description that Cassidy was miserable the whole time she was gone, but she was not.  She had a ball.   She went to an amusement park, the Alpine Slide, two children's museums, two different ChuckECheese's, the Memphis zoo, goony golf, a park, she rode a horse, played with another Katie and Cassidy, fished, went to the beach, and swam in the pool, came home with a few trillion more toys and clothes, and existed the whole month on nothing more than 'roni, candy, and Cool Whip. But even though she got to do all of these things; many of which she cannot do at home, she still kept reminding us, "I want to go to my  home."   Which got me to thinking that that is the attitude that we all should have about heaven.   Our time here on earth should be spent trying to live as Christ would have us to and  in trying to save others.    The Christian life can be an enjoyable one, which is not to say that we will not have problems--everyone does (Matthew 5:45; Romans 2:11)--but unlike non-Christians our problems will end here.  We have something to look forward to, and we should be.   We need to have a goal (heaven) that we are ever working toward and it should always be in the back of our minds.   As Paul said in Philippians 1:24, "For me to live is Christ to die is gain" and in II Timothy 4:7-8  he said, "I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith:  Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness..."   Our time here on earth should be spent trying to live as Christ would have us to and  in trying to save others.   And while we should certainly enjoy our time here on earth, like Paul, we should also long to go to "our" home in heaven.

--Beckye Mosher

Friday, July 19, 2013

QUIET LIONS AND FAT SHEEP

  One of my favorite books and movies when I was growing up was The Parent Trap (with Hayley Mills).   To me, one of the funnier parts of it was when the twins were tormenting Vickie on a camping trip.   In one scene they had her striking sticks together to scare away mountain lions.   When their dad saw Vickie hitting the sticks together he asked her why and after she explained he laughed and told her that it would not scare away wild animals.   However, recently I have read several places that it is a good idea to make noise when hiking to alert bears of your presence.   Because although many wild animals have very acute senses of both smell and hearing, it is possible that a noisy stream, thick brush, or the wind blowing the opposite direction might disguise your movements or scent.   So it has been recommended that you wear bells, whistle, talk, shout, sing, clap your hands, or blow a whistle when hiking anywhere wild animals might be.   Other sources claim that these methods do not work and there are even several jokes going around to this effect.  
     Whether or not bells would truly work at scaring away wild life, wouldn’t it be wonderful if sin wore bells?   If it just let us know what it is when it shows up in our life?   Unfortunately sin is usually a wolf in sheep’s clothing.   It shows up looking harmless and maybe even enticing and next thing you know, you’re completely taken in.   If sin only showed up wearing bells we could hear the warning and flee.
     The Bible refers to Satan as “a roaring lion” in I Peter 5:8:   “Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.”   Amos 3:4 asks, “Will a lion roar in the forest, when he hath no prey? will a young lion cry out of his den, if he have taken nothing?  So does a lion usually walk around roaring?   No.   A lion in search of food is very quiet.   He stealthily moves about looking, smelling, and listening for potential food.   The lion does not roar until he is ready to pounce.   The roar serves to “freeze” his prey like a deer caught in the headlights.   The victim merely stands there while the lion soars through the air and catches him.      People’s New Testament tells us that the devil “goeth about as the lion, seeking for prey. The lion while hunting only roars when it springs. So the devil is stealthy and does not give warning of his approach.”
     Jamieson, Fausset, and Brown say that the “roaring lion” implies that Satan has a violent and insatiable thirst for prey just like a hungry lion.  John Gill puts it even more bluntly, saying Satan is called a roaring lion “both on account of his strength, and also because of his rage, malice, and cruelty, which he breathes out against the saints, who, though he cannot destroy them, will do all he can to terrify and affright them.”
     Satan wants to capture all he can; he is particularly trying to tempt the Christian because he already has the world.   So what can we do if he is sneaking up on us?   How can we avoid that roar as he pounces on us?
Well, just as the Bible warns us of Satan and his sneak attacks, it also tells us of how to avoid him.   The first part of  I Peter 5: 8 warns us to “Be sober, be vigilant”   In other words, we should always keep our eyes open and think clearly.   Matthew Henry says, “(Satan) is a roaring lion, hungry, fierce, strong, and cruel, the fierce and greedy pursuer of souls.”   His business is to walk about seeking whom he may devour; “his whole design is to devour and destroy souls. To this end he is unwearied and restless in his malicious endeavours; for he always, night and day, goes about studying and contriving whom he may ensnare to their eternal ruin. “   He goes on to say that Peter “infers that it is their duty, To be sober, and to govern both the outward and the inward man by the rules of temperance, modesty, and mortification. To be vigilant; not secure or careless, but rather suspicious of constant danger from this spiritual enemy, and, under that apprehension, to be watchful and diligent to prevent his designs and save our souls.”   It is our job to be watchful.   It is our job to guard ourselves from sin (I Thessalonians 5:22).   We are told time and time again to be careful and watchful in all that we do.   We are reminded of how easy it is to stumble.   But along with these reminders we also find assurance.   James 4:7 tells us, “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”   I Corinthians 10:13 says, “There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. ”   This verse is telling us that God will not make a special case out of any of us.   We will all undergo trials and tribulations; we will all be tempted because sin is in the world.   BUT the verse goes on to say that we can escape this temptation if we really want to.   God will provide a way.   We cannot say the devil made us do it; we cannot say we couldn’t help it because the Bible tells us we CAN avoid succumbing to temptation.   Ephesians 6:10-18 says, “Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might.  Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.  For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.  Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;  And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;  Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.  And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:  Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints.”  

     God did not leave us unarmed.   He has provided all the tools necessary for us to resist temptation.   If we always keep our Sword at hand, if we are continually dwelling on God’s Word, then we will not become prey for the devil.   There is a site on the internet called fatsheep.   I found it one day while I was searching for something.   I was curious about the site and why they picked that name so I read until I found the explanation.   They referred to John  21:15-17:    “So when they had dined, Jesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my my sheep.  He saith unto him the third time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me? Peter was grieved because he said unto him the third time, Lovest thou me? And he said unto him, Lord, thou knowest all things; thou knowest that I love thee. Jesus saith unto him, Feed my sheep.”   Below this was printed:   “So why fatsheep?   Because sheep that feed a lot get fat.   So come in to the meadow.   The grazing is fine.”   I don’t remember finding much worthwhile at this site but this one thing stuck with me.   Are you a fat sheep?   Fat sheep find temptation easier to avoid because they are continually feasting on God’s Word (Psalm 119:11).   If we keep our mind on God and His Word (Philippians 4:8), we won’t need sin to ring bells and alert us to its presence because we will be looking for it and will spot it first so that we can avoid it.  And the reward for those who obey God’s Word and avoid temptation is found in James 1:12, "Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love Him.”    So open your Bible and start getting fat today!

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Helping Others

           Cassie has always had an “I want to save you” attitude about people. She really seems drawn to those who are a little different or those who ask for help. She always thinks she can help them. It seems almost any time I leave her in the car people ask her for money and today was no exception. I left both Calli and her in the car (Cassie was driving) while I went in the Beehive. I barely get in the door when I look out the window and see her talking (thru the partially open window) to a man. I just stayed and watched to make sure nothing happened until I saw her hand him something and he took off jogging. 

              After I got back in the car I asked her what it was all about and she said he had asked for money for food, and he was a nice guy because he looked her in the eye and told her he wouldn’t hurt her, and that any amount was fine because he just wanted to get food for himself and his family. She assured me he was sincere and that he wasn’t drunk or on drugs because he was coherent and didn’t have any symptoms of drug use (which she proceeded to describe to me!). She gave him 50 cents because that was all she had. She realized later that we had a whole plate of hot dogs and buns from the 4H get together we’d just been to and felt really bad that she hadn’t given those to him. Right after I got in the car we saw him go by with a plate of food and Cassie was all “See! He’s legit! I wish I had more to give him.” As I said, this is not the first time this has happened. Last time a woman told her a long story about how she was going to die if she didn’t get an operation so Cassie gave her whatever money she had then as well. I feel sure that wasn’t legit.
          
              I think because of Mark’s years of preaching/benevolent work, we are both very skeptical of helping people this way. I think that Cassie has a very sweet heart to want to do this. I also think that she may one day get in trouble trying to help people. And I do think most people begging this way are not legit. But it’s her money and if that’s what she wants to do, then I’m going to let her. I’m glad he did buy food (even tho’ her daddy pointed out that he might have needed money for food because he’d already spent his on booze and cigarettes…I told you we’re skeptical).
          
              We attended a funeral for a dear friend yesterday and he was known for helping everyone, including the homeless or others begging for money. His wife would sometimes tell him that he shouldn’t because they were taking advantage of him. He told her that that may be true but he was going to help them all and let the Lord sort it all out. It made Cassie’s day to see the man go by with a plate of food and she did feel bad that she hadn’t given more or offered him the hot dogs.
           
                I remember reading about how a friend made packages of snack crackers and a few other items along with a Bible verse to keep on hand to pass out to those in need. I told Cassie that we would do that. We don’t see as many homeless as some do, but we do still see our share. While I was researching other ideas of what to put in the bags, I found an article where the author said that she used to avoid eye contact and  look away whenever she saw anyone asking for food, but after she made up packages and began passing them out she realized that looking the person in the eye, sharing a smile, touching their hand as she passed them the bag, all made a difference to the person in need. Many of these people are overlooked by society and maybe they won’t use what we give them, but they do deserve to be recognized and they need our compassion far more than the food/toiletry items. So we will begin dong this and not only will it make Cassie feel good to be able to help, maybe it will make a difference to that person as well and if not, as Ben said, “We will just let the Lord sort it out.”